It’s Not Always 50/50

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If you haven’t already figured it out yet a relationship isn’t always 50% you and 50% him when it comes to a friendship or a romantic relationship.  Sometimes it may be 80% you and 20% him, or 20% you and 80% him.  With statistics aside, it’s important that we both do our best to contribute to a relationship.  For example, if you aren’t feeling well and 20% is all you can give that day then he can do a little extra, and the same goes for you if he is sick.  When we both do our best and put others before ourselves it reflects in our relationship.  I have found that when I put God first that everything else tends to follow the way that it should because I’m reading the Word and asking for His help to be the best I can be for those around me and myself.